If current events are any sort of indicator, I should probably rethink the whole "raising my kid on the principles of sports" technique.
I used to assume teamwork, integrity, hard work, dedication and grace were principles that could be fostered by playing and watching athletics. I may have been wrong.
1) A nation's soccer team is boycotting practice and possibly actual competition during the freaking World Cup.
2) Golf fans are cheering wildly for a sex monger making his "comeback" — acting like somehow it would be the feel-good story of the year for this guy who was 100 percent responsible for his actions to win a golf tournament INSTEAD OF his many co-workers who have worked hard and not ruined their lives. I understand wanting to see Tiger emerge from the muck of a life gone wrong, but explain to me why I should be rooting for him more than all these other guys.
3) Basketball players at the highest level are rewarded time and again for falling down when no one touches them. So how am I supposed to explain to my son that this isn't lying, it's acting? Is there a difference?
4) Activities as benign and genteel as small-time high school girls basketball elicits fan ferocity that would make Christian Bale blush. Forgive me for not wanting to take my son to a community event where "30-year-old Former Varsity Athlete at a Tiny School" screams at players on the opposing team — we're talking about 15-year-old girls here — because he thinks they're traveling. Or fouling. Or faking injury to save a timeout (I actually saw this one with my one eyes.).
There's an endless supply of valid reasons to keep my son away from competitive sports — both on TV and in person. And don't think I won't feel bad when I turn a blind eye to all of them, idealistically hoping to steer my him away from the bad (the French soccer team, Tiger Woods, Vlade Divac, high school sports ridiculousness and the like) and toward the good (Nolan Ryan, tee ball, March Madness and such).
Wish me luck.
Monday, June 21, 2010
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What are your thoughts on exposing your son to hyper-emotional sports fans who yell at the TV? Those are the REAL ones to watch out for!
ReplyDeleteNolan Ryan is everything that is good about sports. The man pitched til he was fifty in an era before steroids (mostly). Him and Charlie Hough.
ReplyDeleteAnd Hough looked 20 years older than he was. It was like watching Hume Cronyn out there.
ReplyDeleteOk, it wasn't like it was a REAL soccer team, it was France for crying out loud!
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