But do I really need another card? A few days ago one of my cousins brought up one of his pet peeves: greeting cards. He especially loathes the ultra-cheesy, poetry-laden variety. Instead, when facing situations that society says call for mushy congratulatory offerings, he prefers writing a letter or finding some other unique way to express his feelings. In his mind, why let Hallmark muck up what he's actually feeling.
That's a refreshing take on a sometimes-stale tradition. I normally write letters to my wife instead of buying cards, and it goes over very well — as far as I know. Also, if you have a particular skill, you can do something really outside the box. Graphic design experience, aptitude for photography or carpentry talent come in handy.
Unfortunately, not everyone appreciates this approach. Many wives are going to immediately assume "hand-written letter instead of same-old card" means "My husband forgot this special day and ran out of time to visit Rite-Aid."
If you're going to scrap the card route, you best be certain it's going to land.
As for me, I certainly see my cousin's point, but seeing as how my son can't talk yet, I'll give him the benefit of the doubt this time around.
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AMEN! I am the cousin he speaks of. Thanks for writing this Jake! I do in fact loath store bought cards, ( except for the occasionally humorous one.) Why do I want to give a loved one or a friend someone else's words??? It's just stupid when you think about it. I say next Valentines day we muster up as many as we can and boycott Hallmark! What do you say!...... anybody?
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